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How I overcame fear, and finally started my Business [Guest Post]

How I overcame fear and finally started my business

Folks, I have the great privilege this week of introducing you to someone who has made the leap into entrepreneurship and is making BIG waves in the process. Nicole has become a great friend of mine and I think you are going to love her attitude to life and business.  Run, don’t walk over to and sign up for Nicole’s freebies. ~ Ingrid

First, I am SO very grateful to Ingrid for giving me space on her platform to share my entrepreneurial journey. Ingrid and I bonded over positive mindset and affirmations at a conference this past October. Some call it random coincidence… I call it destiny!!

For as long as I can remember, I’ve wanted to be the creator and owner of my own business. Beyond the constant flow of thoughts and ideas for This or That business (canning classes, anyone?), I’ve worked through the ins and outs of a photography business, not once, but twice. I’ve made preparations to open a space in the lower level of my house to offer classes in sewing and crafting, bringing makers of handmade goods together. I’ve taken multiple business planning courses in my town, and made capital investments in each of these ideas as I thought to myself “this time will be different. This time I’m really going to do it.”

I’ve just always enjoyed dreaming about being my own boss, working in my jammies and bringing my ideas to life. You see, I have a LOT of ideas. Or, should I say, the universe presents me with a lot of ideas and I love thinking about bringing every one of them to fruition.

Elizabeth Gilbert, in Big Magic explores how ideas and creativity come to us. She believes that they are everywhere (I imagine them like little fairies), constantly trying to get the attention of us. Us meaning people, who can actually curate and bring forth the ideas. Gilbert writes, and I believe it as well: “We are ALL creative beings.”

For the past 10 years, I’ve worked as a physical therapist, working for the large, regional hospital system for most of that time. The flow of ideas and creative solutions didn’t stop when I’d clock in at work so I thought, I’ll bring them with me into this cumbersome, large system. I’ll be the best version of myself at work and make my workplace better by using my gifts.

In staff meetings, while talking to coworkers or even at the dinner table with my spouse, I’d find ideas that I was sure were worth exploring. I would take the idea to my supervisor who would quickly state all the reasons it would never work. Then, I’d move on to the next person up the chain of command, only to receive the same response. I joined committees and project improvement teams. I brainstormed and implemented. I ran into wall after thick wall in the halls of middle management and administration. I think the universe was talking to me, telling me this was not the right fit for my gifts.

It took me years, but I finally realized my gifts and my calling were not in the healthcare industry and its nearly impenetrable norms and fixed culture.

My passion was in what I had been doing on the side, after work and on weekends for friends, for free. Personal financial counseling.

I have this crazy story where my husband and I made one choice that completely changed the trajectory of our life. A choice to pay off $100,000 in debt and stop trying to keep up with all of our neighbors and co-workers. We figured out that defining our own “American Dream” is what gave our budget sticking power. AND, through this amazingly enlightening and difficult process, I found I LOVE guiding other people towards finding what works (and what might not) with personal finance, intentional living, and family life. I found my joy and passion.

Even with all my excitement and fervor for starting my own business, I quickly realized this was going to be more than I was prepared for. The ideas and creativity bursts are one thing. It’s a whole other story to bring something this big to fruition. Did the universe think I was made of money? Did it think I had more than 24-hours allotted to other average American mothers?

At the time (November 2016) I was working full time as a physical therapist, had two school-aged children, two children too young for school, and had multiple volunteer obligations, including serving on a leadership team at my church. Oh, and my husband was just making a career transition as well!

Talk about questionable timing to start a business.

But, I found myself writing down all my ideas. Dreaming about and pinning what I’d like my website to look like. I’d use my lunch hour and any other free time in the evenings to begin to nail down my business plan and vision for what would become Greatest Worth.

It was fun and exciting – visioning is my jam and joy. It was also safe.

Eventually, though, the visioning started to become something with structure and bones, something possible and real. Then, the snakes arrived.

Don’t Listen to the Snakes!

Not real snakes. But they sure felt real. This is the name my husband has given to my limiting beliefs and my poor self-worth – because my entrepreneurial journey so far has mainly been wrestling these beasts. And beasts they certainly have been.

In the past – with photography and the craft school, and countless other notions and dreams, I’ve chosen the snakes over creativity. You see, it felt MUCH easier to let the snakes take control, to wrap their little lies around my mind and keep me safely in their pit.

It felt MUCH easier to stay in a job that I dreaded every day, rather than risking challenge or loss or ‘failure’.

It felt MUCH easier to let the snakes keep my divergent, outside the box thinking contained and confined rather than stepping away from the status quo to name truths that may not be easy to hear.

It felt MUCH easier to avoid collaborating with creativity.

It’s safe and warm in the pit. There’s no risk. There’s no way I can fail. Or be embarrassed. Or have to learn new things like website design and lead magnets and how to be an engaging writer. Or have to pitch my idea 50,000 times to people I’ve never met and are so much farther ahead of me in their journey. Or, worst of all, to trust that I am sufficient, enough – more than enough – to do this. Surely, I thought again and again in the throws of my snake wrestling, people will see right through me, and decide I’m a fraud.

I don’t have any special qualifications! Who do I think I am trying to create this business about personal financial freedom?


Her story and wisdom, and the support of people who love and believe in me despite my doubts and fears, gave me permission to follow my ideas and passions. So, I moved forward. One tiny step at a time. Sometimes it was a giant step (or it felt giant anyway). Like that time I invested hundreds of dollars in an online course for bloggers to help entrepreneurs create a successful, profitable website.

Some people start a blog as a hobby. I never wanted a hobby. I ONLY wanted a business. The tag line was compelling, so I made the investment.

Well, that investment led to meeting some really cool people through its community. Which led to some help and encouragement when I needed it. Which led to continuing to work on my self-talk. Which led to therapy and a few well-timed books. Which led to me having the courage to attend my first blogging conference. Which led me to my second blogging conference (where I was more confident). Which led me to Ingrid.

I met Ingrid at FinCon – a conference for personal finance content creators – bloggers, reporters, podcasters. . We met standing in line waiting for a free taco buffet. That’s the universe for you. Creating magic all over the place if we just open our eyes to see it, and accept and embrace it.

We connected almost immediately, realizing we were in a similar journey working to shift the way we talk to and about ourselves. We were both choosing to move forward with our dreams and our businesses. We both had those little idea fairies begging us to collaborate with them – we just had to be brave enough to say yes. And, strong enough to believe that we were (are) the right person for the job.

Because, that’s the crux of it, isn’t it. You’re too busy listening to your old story and your snakes. Snakes that sound something like this:

“Who am I to create something that amazing?”

“People are going to realize I’m a fraud.”

“I don’t have any special certification or education on this topic. How can I teach this?”

“What if no one cares what I have to say?”

“What if people laugh at me?”

“There are so many other people who have similar businesses who are way more amazing than me.”

“What if I waste two years trying to make this work, and I fail?”

“I should be content with my J.O.B. It’s good. I have enough. I’m OK.”

“I don’t have the time.”

“I have to make money, like now.”

Which resonate most with you? What stirs and rises within your experience as you direct some attention to these ancient stories?

Please, dear one, remember this: these are just a part of the story we tell ourselves, or were told. They’re not the whole of the truth, NOT THE WHOLE OF YOU. Thoughts and stories are constructs we build to help us make sense of the world and its dizzying complexities – they’re a choice.


Start by choosing to put time into figuring out your true story. Realize that you are worth it. You are amazing. Accept that the universe chose YOU for this idea you’re holding. You are the one to bring this idea, this creation, this course, this business to life.

And then, mostly, decide to love yourself. Love who you are right now. For me, in order to live a life that is authentic and true to who I really am, I had to decide that I am lovely and thoughtful and kind and generous and a good writer and awesome and enough.

I am enough. And so are you. Right where you are.

I still have a hard time writing these things about myself. But that’s the work friend, to choose to love and believe in myself every day. Because this love is the one thing that has helped me to continue moving forward, one tiny step at a time.

I’m rooting for you.


P.S. This past year I’ve used a morning routine as a space to do this hard internal work. So, I’ve made a FREE printable that guides you through my exact routine. Use it how it is or as a guide to create something that works for you! Here’s your first step friend. What are you waiting for?

Why doing #AllTheThings isn’t a Marketing Strategy

I’ve been in this world of online Marketing for a while now – ever since I decided to quit my “real” job in Corporate America and venture out with my own business almost 10 years ago.  That’s an eternity in online years!  (I must be ready for retirement by now…)  

Anyhow…during all this time I’ve “played” with every marketing tool out there, was on social media before it was a thing (MySpace anyone?) and tried #allthethings to grow my business. I feel like I’ve been on every list and hungrily consumed all the podcasts. Whenever anyone who I admired made a recommendation to try out a new thing, I was all over it!

I’m a sucker for new tools and technology, so this online world was just like a shiny, new playground for me.

Look at this awesome sandbox over here!


Those swings look awesome!

Anyone coming on the climbing wall?

Wait  – SQUIRREL! 
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How to get your first paying clients as a Photographer

I know many of you reading my blog love taking photos just because you love taking photos.  I also know that many of you love photography so much that you want to share that gift with the world and get financially rewarded for it too.  If you have that desire then keep on reading. You’ll see more blog post from me over the coming months about this side of photography and how you can turn your passion into a full time income.

So where do you begin?

Start with your Circle

Sometimes a business can happen quite naturally. Chances are, if you love photography so much, you are THAT mom on the baseball field taking ALL the pictures ALL the time.  At some point, the other parents realize their iPhone photos can’t compare with the beautifully captured images you are taking and they start asking you to shoot their kid’s photos. Or perhaps you’re so excited to use your new lenses you jump at the chance of photographing the preschool Santa photos and business grows naturally from there.  If these types of situations have happened to you now is the time to leverage that.  People already know that you are “snap happy” so make sure you tell them that you are open for business!

Its easier than ever to reach out to you friends and and your family. One click of a button and you can shoot an email to everyone in your address book.  You’re only one status update from declaring your new venture to the world! Use the power of social media to tell your circle that you are doing some mini-shoots or send them a personalized message inviting them to a shoot. Telling your inner circle first will give you the confidence and practice you need to start pitching your services to strangers.


You actually have to ask people to share you are doing this new venture. Often times, friends might be hesitant to refer you if they are unclear that you are taking new clients on. Make sure your circle knows that you are open to shooting new people and actively ask them to refer you to their friends.

If you’ve already taken photos of them encourage them to share on social media and tag you or ideally your business’ social profiles.

Sweeten the pot even more by given them something in return for sending you a referral.  This can be a formalized thing such as a free mini session for every three referrals given to you, or something a little more spontaneous by just rewarding those people in your network who you know are good for referrals. Perhaps a free 10 x 8 print or session every so often will help nurture that relationship and keep you top of mind when they are being asked to recommend a photographer.  Personally I like a more formalized solution which is baked into your marketing plan.  Having a system in place for this will ensure that this marketing strategy can essentially run itself and something I help my clients set up all the time.

Social Media

As has been said a bajillion times before, there has never been a better time to get yourself and your business seen for FREE using the internet and social media.  But because of this super low barrier to entry it is harder than ever to stand out from the crowd.  Its important that you fully utilize your social media profiles to represent your business. Make sure the basic information is filled out correctly and for a local business put all of your contact information on there.

Encourage clients to write a testimonial for you on your social sites – e.g. Facebook, as these will be some of the first places people will look when researching your business. A good testimonial is priceless and you should use them everywhere in your marketing.

And of course, it should go without saying, the photography you share should be your absolute best work and an example of the type of photography you love to shoot.  If you want to be a wedding photographer, tone down the baby shoots and most definitely those sweeping landscape shots. Post lots of beautiful brides to solidify your position in the market. If you are not getting the type of work that you truly want to shoot then take a good look at what your social media photos are saying about you.  If you’re lacking the shots you desire set a plan in motion to go out and shoot them!

Local Joint Ventures

Being a photographer you have the luxury of constantly creating content that should sell your services for you. Every photo you take can be a piece of marketing material  –  its just up to you to put it in front of the right eyeballs.  The next time your in your local Dentist Office, check out their wall decor. Does it need updating? Could you provide them with some pretty pictures in exchange for a utilizing their wall space? Think about the amount of people that are going to see your work on a daily basis. Even better if you can negotiate a deal with a very aligned vendor such as a Pediatric’s Office if you are a Newborn Photographer or a florist if you specialize in Weddings.

Also consider joining up with aligned vendors who operate in your industry vertical for cross referrals.  Start to build this network of people who you like to work with and nurture them the way you would your clients.  Word of Mouth Marketing has been around a long time and is flourishing now more than ever thanks to our super connectedness on Social Media.

These best thing about all these marketing strategies is that none of them need to cost you any money – which in any business is a good thing!

How to Organize Pictures – Importing into Lightroom

For the second part of this series I thought it would be fun to do a video so that you can see my screen as I import my photos into Lightroom.  I know a lot of people get confused at this stage of Lightroom. This video shows where I’m importing from and where I’m importing to.

If you are considering making the move to Lightroom I can highly recommend taking Lesa Snider’s Course on Creative Live : Lightroom Essentials.  Lesa has really great way of explaining complicated concepts in an easy to understand manner and I love her relaxed, easy going style of teaching. Like all Creative Live courses, this one is broken down into easily manageable chunks and clearly takes your through the program covering all the bases in a fun, practical way.

And if you don’t gel well with Lesa’s style there are lots of other awesome Lightroom courses available on Creative Live to suit every skill level.  You’ll find yourself, as I do, referring back to them often.

Some of the Resources Mentioned:

Abobe Lightroom 6

Adobe Creative Cloud

Lesa Snider’s : Lightroom Essentials [Creative Live]

Western Digital My Book External Hard drive

Let me know in the comments if you have any questions about your import system and if you missed the first part of this series you can catch it here:

How to Import Photos into Lightroom How to Import Photos into Lightroom There will be one more part in this series coming soon so start getting organized!

Happy snapping


How to Organize Pictures on your Computer

If you struggle with knowing how to organize pictures then check out this first part of a step by step series which will guide you through getting your photos under control and organized once and for all.

Last year I read Marie Kondo’s best seller, “The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up”, and although I still battle the clutter everyday, its basic principles has helped me to control the “stuff” in my house.  Where I do suffer from enormous amounts of “clutter” and disorganization though, is in my digital life, most glaringly, in my photo organization. I have photos EVERYWHERE and I don’t mean beautifully printed out, matted and framed! This is despite having Adobe Lightroom and the know-how to sort this issue out. So I have decided that this summer is the summer that I’m finally going to organize pictures, videos and all things digital and I’m going to document it all here on the blog so hopefully it can help someone who is suffering from the same problem.

As you might know, I am a photography educator. I teach people how to use their cameras, photography basics including Adobe Lightroom and how to organize their pictures.  Why then are mine such a mess? Its not for lack of knowledge of how to do it. I believe its more that my home is completely overstuffed with photos everywhere I turn. They are on my iPad, on my Phone, in text messages, emails, on hard drives, flash drives, and on a whole other PC that I no longer use! And to make matters worse, every day I add to this crazy pile. Some day my kiddos are going to look for a photo of themselves aged 3 and I won’t be able to find one and believe me, its not because I haven’t taken any…  This makes me very sad so enough of the craziness!

Let’s Begin!

Step 1: Picture your Ideal System

I realize we are all starting at different points in this process so before you start moving things around, give a little thought to your current situation.

  • What system if any you currently use?
  • Do you want to stick with it or develop a new system?
  • Perhaps most of your photos are already in Lightroom and its the others that you need to tackle.  This is the case for me.

In my Lightroom Library, everything from 2013 to date is pretty well organized, but I still have the issue of iPad pics, emails pics and old PCs and laptops to sort out.  If you are just a beginning photographer you likely have no bad habits yet so you get to start from scratch. Organize pictures doesn’t even feature on your todo list yet. Give yourself a pat on the back 😉

Give some thought to your current situation and how you could improve upon it. Think about the end goal of all that picture taking. At some point I’m sure you’ll want to retrieve your beautiful images or perhaps it might be someone else doing the searching.  Will they be able to understand your system and find what they are looking for?

Step 2: Get your Equipment

I can hands down say the Adobe Lightroom is the powerhouse when it comes to organizing pictures and photo management.  If you are not already invested in a system that you are happy with then you can purchase Adobe Lightroom 6 outright or you can subscribe to Adobe Creative Cloud which includes both Photoshop and Lightroom.

You will also need a place to store all of your photos.  In my opinion it is better to first have anything in one place and then back up from there and my “one place” of choice is a 3 TB External Hard drive.  I purchased this one from Amazon but do your research to see what’s a good fit for the size of your photo library and your budget. Ultimately you will have a back up of all your images, but as of now, this is your single place for all your photos for $9.99 per month.

Step 3: Gather your photos

My last step in this phase is to gather all of my photos in one place.  I know I have a ton of duplicates so this should help me get over this issue and my one place is going to be my 3 tb hard drive.  I also have issues with videos and video clips, but right now I ‘m focusing on photos! I might even end up needing a 2nd drive purely for videos. We shall see…

Next, I’m going to do a search on my laptop, my Old PC, my iPad, iPhone and a few other random drives I have lying around.  If you are joining me on this quest, then you might also want to check out old CDs, old Phones and flash drives. I’m pretty confident all my other phones were at one point put onto my computer, so I’m not too worried about mine.

So I’ve created a folder on my external hard drive called “PHOTOS TO BE ORGANIZED.” The next step is to copy everything that is currently all over the place into sub-folders within this folder. If your photos are already in folders, keep this folder structure when you copy your images over. If they are not, then just create sub-folders to represent each device or starting folder and label appropriately. You can drag and drop your images onto this folder or simply “copy” and “paste” each folder individually.

So this process is going to take a little time, but I cannot stress enough the importance of gathering everything in one place.  In my next post, we’ll discuss importing the images into Lightroom in such a way that future retrieval will be a piece of cake.

Over to you!

So your homework for this week is:

Step 1: Think about your current situation and how you need to improve of that.

Step 2: Purchase a dedicated external hard drive or decide on the single place to gather all your photos on.

Step 3: Gather all of your devices with images on them. Download the images into sub-folders within the PHOTOS TO BE ORGANIZED folder on your hard drive. Do not delete them off these devices yet until they have been further backed up.

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I’d love to know your biggest challenge with all of this so let me know in the comments.

Happy snapping


Aperture Priority Mode – How to make a Blurry Background


How to make a blurry background

Check out the video below about Aperture Priority Mode.  Even if you don’t have a DSLR you most likely have this mode on your Point and Shoot camera.

Video Transcript

Hi there! It’s Ingrid from Camerashy. One of the questions that I get asked by my students all the time is, “Ingrid how do you make a blurry background?” A blurry background?  Oh I get it, I know what you’re talking about. You want to blur the background of your photos so you get a nice creamy, dreamy background and your subject really stands out. It makes for a really nice portrait shot. I know what you want to do and it is really easy.

All you have to do is to move out of Auto Mode and move in to Aperture Priority Mode. So how do you do that? Aperture Priority Mode will be AV if you are shooting on Canon or it will be A on a Nikon, Panasonic,Olympus – pretty much everything else right?

So you want to be in Aperture Priority Mode and then turn the command dial to get the lowest aperture that you can shoot with. This would be dependent on the lens that you are using. So, don’t worry if you can’t get any lower than f/5.6 that is probably got to do with the lens that you have on there.(Check that you are using lens that has wide maximum aperture. )

So you need to shoot wide open. When you are


So you are out of Auto Mode but not quite in Manual but you are getting there. That’s Aperture Priority Mode!

Aperture Priority Mode really is the best mode to be in when you are shooting portraits, or photos of your kids or anything that you really want to pin point the focus and blur the background so that you can really tell the story of your image.

For more quick and easy tutorials on how to use your Digital camera, make sure to sign up on the blog and subscribe to my channel so that you never miss another video.
Happy Snapping!

Let me know if you use it in the comments below after watching the video!



Learning Photography – 3 mistakes beginners make using a new DSLR camera

  3 mistakes pin

1. Shooting only Auto Mode

If you switch your DSLR camera to Auto Mode do you know that you are only using about 20% of its functionality?  That’s like having a zippy sports car and keeping it parked in your driveway (as one of my students rightfully stated!)  Why spend all that money on a wonderful piece of photography equipment to do that?  When you shoot in auto mode, the camera takes over all of the control of your camera settings. It decides on exposure, ISO, WB and whether or not you need flash amongst other things.

While you think this might be a good thing when you are just starting out, when you are learning photography you must challenge yourself a wee bit more.If you want to improve you need to move out of auto mode learn to shoot in the Creative Zone.

Learning Photography - Mode Dial Using the P, Tv (S), Av(A) and M modes correctly by controlling the settings,  will bring your photography to the next level.  Although every shot may not necessarily be a winner (Hey! everyone’s gotta start somewhere) you’ll be a step closer to improving your photography. Remember; we all learn by our mistakes, so don’t be afraid to make ’em.

2. Using Flash Inside

Using Flash inside is something that most people think is a necessity. In many cases this is true as the light is just too poor or your subject is a wiggly 2 year old.  There are many times however that it is possible to shoot without flash indoors:

  • If you have lots of natural light
  • Your shooting under very strong artificial lights
  • When you want to capture the lights or ambience in your picture.

These lighting conditions work well without flash especially if your subject is not moving, for example if you are shooting ingredients for a recipe.

So to shoot with out flash inside you simply need to turn it off. However, if you are shooting in Auto Mode you will have no control over when your flash turns on and pops up.

This is always the great giveaway as to when a photographer is using Auto.  I’ve seen countless students who initially think the only way to keep that flash off is to press down against the pop-up action of the flash unit … eh…great way to break your camera by the way.

Go ahead and turn the camera to P and simply don’t turn on your flash.

In P Mode the flash will only pop up if you tell it to do so.  The camera will make adjustments so that it will compensate for the lack of flash and you should get a correctly exposed shot.  Shooting in low light can of course be improved by using better lenses and changing some other settings such as ISO but by just doing turning off the flash in P Mode you will have a good jumping off point to see which settings you can further tweak to improve shooting indoors with no flash.

If you’ve been following my blog for a while you’ve probably already taken my free mini-course on taking Better Photos where we cover all of this stuff. You can still sign up to get access to it here.

3. No specific Focus Point

When your photograph lacks a focal point the viewer of your image doesn’t know where to look in the picture and ultimately their eye leaves the image.  Having a definitive focal point ensures that your photo is engaging and the viewer of the image gets what it is  that they are supposed to be looking at.

Usually the Focal Point of the Image is where your FOCUS POINT is.

Your FOCUS Points of your camera are highlighted within the viewfinder as red spots (or squares) when your press your finger on the shutter button.  Always make sure that your focus points are over the area of the image that you want to be in focus.

If they are not, then you can reframe your image so that this is the case or  you can manually set the focus point by accessing the focus point selection function of your camera. Personally I always like to have my focus point set to the middle point.  I can then use Focus Lock method to reframe my image exactly how I like it.  This ensures I always know where my focus point and hence my focal point is in the image and helps to make my photos more visually stronger.

Happy Snapping


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